Bên cạnh Hướng dẫn đề thi IELTS 21/11/2020 bài WRITING TASK 1 (map) về school library (kèm bài sửa cho HS đi thi), IELTS TUTOR 🔥 Giải đề "Describe a person you disliked at first but ended up being friends with" IELTS SPEAKING PART 2,3: Bài mẫu kèm từ vựng
I. Đề bài
Describe a person you disliked at first but ended up being friends with
You should say
- Who he/she is
- How you knew him/her
- Why you disliked him/her at first but you changed your mind
- And explain how you feel about the experience
II. Kiến thức liên quan
IELTS TUTOR hướng dẫn
III. Phân tích
IELTS TUTOR lưu ý bám sát vào các câu hỏi cue card của IELTS TUTOR để bố cục bài nói nhé:
Today, I would like to tell you about a person I initially didn’t get along with, but who later became a close friend — his name is Quân.
I first met him during our freshman orientation week at university. We were both majoring in Business Administration and were assigned to the same group for various ice-breaking activities.
At first, I found him quite arrogant (arrogant – tự cao, kiêu ngạo – showing an offensive attitude of superiority). He often interrupted others while they were speaking and seemed to look down on (look down on – khinh thường – to think someone is inferior) those who didn’t share the same opinions as him. I remember thinking that he was the epitome (epitome – hình mẫu hoàn hảo (trong nghĩa tiêu cực) – a perfect example of a particular quality) of a know-it-all.>> tham khảo CẦN VIẾT & THU ÂM BAO NHIÊU BÀI ĐỂ ĐẠT 8.0 SPEAKING & 7.0 WRITING?
However, over time, my perspective underwent a drastic shift (undergo a drastic shift – trải qua thay đổi lớn – to change dramatically). During a group project, I was paired with Quân again, and I had the chance to interact with him more closely. Surprisingly, he turned out to be incredibly supportive and full of brilliant ideas. He took the time to explain complex theories to me and always made sure everyone was on the same page. I gradually realized that his confidence was often mistaken for arrogance, and that beneath his tough exterior, he was actually thoughtful and empathetic.
This experience has been eye-opening (eye-opening – mở mang tầm mắt – surprising and teaching you something new) for me in many ways. Firstly, it taught me not to judge a book by its cover. People can be very different once you get to know them better. Secondly, I learned the importance of open-mindedness (open-mindedness – sự cởi mở – willingness to consider new ideas and different opinions) in forming relationships. If I had kept my initial bias, I would have missed out on a genuinely valuable friendship. Now, Quân and I hang out regularly, and he’s become one of my most trustworthy companions (trustworthy companion – người bạn đáng tin cậy – a reliable and loyal friend). Looking back, I feel grateful that I gave him a second chance, and this whole journey has made me more mature and less quick to judge others.
🔹 New Vocabulary & Phrases (with explanation in Vietnamese & English)
Arrogant – tự cao, kiêu ngạo – showing an offensive attitude of superiority
Synonyms: conceited, haughty, overconfident
Antonyms: humble, modest, down-to-earth
IELTS TUTOR xét ví dụ: I found him quite arrogant.Look down on – khinh thường – to think someone is inferior
Synonyms: disdain, belittle, scorn
Antonyms: respect, admire, value
IELTS TUTOR xét ví dụ: He seemed to look down on others.Epitome – hình mẫu hoàn hảo (tiêu cực hoặc tích cực) – a perfect example
Synonyms: embodiment, representation, personification
Antonyms: opposite, contrast, antithesis
IELTS TUTOR xét ví dụ: He was the epitome of a know-it-all.Undergo a drastic shift – trải qua thay đổi lớn – to change dramatically
Synonyms: transform, evolve, turn around
Antonyms: remain, persist, stagnate
IELTS TUTOR xét ví dụ: My perspective underwent a drastic shift.Eye-opening – mở mang tầm mắt – surprising and educational
Synonyms: enlightening, revealing, awakening
Antonyms: uninformative, unremarkable, boring
IELTS TUTOR xét ví dụ: This experience has been eye-opening.Open-mindedness – sự cởi mở – willingness to accept new ideas
Synonyms: acceptance, broad-mindedness, tolerance
Antonyms: narrow-mindedness, intolerance, prejudice
IELTS TUTOR xét ví dụ: I learned the importance of open-mindedness.Trustworthy companion – người bạn đáng tin cậy – reliable friend
Synonyms: loyal friend, dependable partner, reliable buddy
Antonyms: unreliable acquaintance, traitor, stranger
IELTS TUTOR xét ví dụ: He’s become one of my most trustworthy companions.
🔹 Grammar Structures & Explanations
“I initially didn’t get along with, but who later became a close friend”
→ Mệnh đề quan hệ kết hợp với cấu trúc “get along with”
→ Tôi ban đầu không hợp, nhưng sau lại trở thành bạn thân
→ Tôi đã không hợp với ai đó ban đầu, nhưng sau này lại thành bạn thân“If I had kept my initial bias, I would have missed out...”
→ Câu điều kiện loại 3 – nếu quá khứ khác đi thì kết quả đã khác
→ Nếu tôi cứ giữ định kiến ban đầu, tôi đã bỏ lỡ...“He turned out to be incredibly supportive...”
→ Cấu trúc “turn out to be” – hóa ra là
→ Anh ấy hóa ra lại rất hỗ trợ...
IV. Part 3
1. Where do young people usually make friends?
Young people often make friends at educational institutions (educational institutions = các cơ sở giáo dục = places like schools or universities) because they frequently interact with peers during classes and group projects. These settings naturally promote shared experiences and encourage bonding among students. Another common place is online platforms (online platforms = nền tảng trực tuyến = websites and apps where people connect), where teenagers can join interest-based communities like gaming groups or fan pages. The digital environment allows them to socialize beyond geographical boundaries. For example, I know several students who met their closest friends through a language exchange forum, which later led to in-person meetups. These days, friendship is not confined to physical spaces, and the rise of social media has reshaped the way young people connect. In short, both school-based interactions and virtual connections play key roles in forming friendships today.>> Form đăng kí giải đề thi thật IELTS 4 kĩ năng kèm bài giải bộ đề 100 đề PART 2 IELTS SPEAKING quý đang thi (update hàng tuần) từ IELTS TUTOR
2. Is campus a good place to make friends?
Yes, campuses are an ideal environment (ideal environment = môi trường lý tưởng = perfect setting) for making friends because they bring together individuals from diverse backgrounds who share similar academic goals. This mix creates a rich space for cultural exchange and mutual understanding. Additionally, extracurricular activities like clubs, sports, and volunteering events offer countless opportunities to build lasting connections. Such group-oriented settings allow students to develop camaraderie while pursuing common interests. For instance, I joined a university debate club and ended up meeting people who are now my best friends. What makes campus life so conducive to friendship is the balance of structured interaction and spontaneous encounters. From library study sessions to random conversations in the cafeteria, friendships can blossom naturally. Thus, the university campus is more than just a place to study; it's a social hub.
3. How do middle-aged people make friends?
Middle-aged individuals usually make friends through workplace interactions (workplace interactions = giao tiếp tại nơi làm việc = socializing with colleagues). Since they spend a large portion of their time at work, professional relationships often evolve into personal friendships. They may also engage in community activities, such as joining a gym, a parent-teacher association, or a book club. These settings offer shared routines, which help establish trust and familiarity. For example, my aunt formed a close friendship with someone she met in her weekly yoga class. Unlike younger people, middle-aged adults often prioritize quality over quantity in relationships, seeking deeper connections. Moreover, they may reconnect with long-lost acquaintances thanks to reunions or social media. In short, friendships in middle age tend to be more purpose-driven and formed through daily-life routines.
4. Is it important to have things in common to be friends?
Yes, having common ground (common ground = điểm chung = shared interests or values) is quite important because it lays the foundation for meaningful conversations and emotional connection. People tend to bond more easily when they can relate to each other's experiences. For example, two colleagues who both enjoy hiking might plan trips together and strengthen their friendship through shared adventures. That said, diversity in personalities can also add richness to a relationship. However, without at least a few mutual interests, it's hard to maintain long-term closeness. When values or hobbies completely clash, it might lead to misunderstandings. Hence, while opposites can attract, some overlap in preferences or life perspectives makes friendships more sustainable. So yes, having things in common definitely helps nurture strong bonds.
5. Can two people who are very different from each other still be friends?
Absolutely, two contrasting individuals can still form a strong friendship, especially if they respect each other's differences. Sometimes, opposing traits (opposing traits = tính cách đối lập = contrasting personalities) can complement one another and bring balance to the relationship. For example, a talkative person might appreciate a quiet friend who listens well and offers thoughtful advice. Moreover, friendships built on contrast can lead to personal growth, as each person introduces new perspectives. As long as there is mutual respect and open-mindedness, differences won’t become a barrier. In fact, some of the most enduring friendships are between people who challenge each other to grow. However, too many conflicting values could cause tension if not addressed. Still, with the right attitude, such friendships can be both enriching and long-lasting.
🔍 Vocabulary List with Explanations
Educational institutions – Cơ sở giáo dục – Schools, universities.
Synonyms: schools, colleges, academies
Antonyms: homes, workplaces, streets
IELTS TUTOR xét ví dụ: Young people often make friends at educational institutions.Online platforms – Nền tảng trực tuyến – Social media, websites, apps to meet people.
Ideal environment – Môi trường lý tưởng – The perfect condition for something to happen.
Workplace interactions – Giao tiếp tại nơi làm việc – Social communication at work.
Common ground – Điểm chung – Shared interests or opinions.
Opposing traits – Tính cách đối lập – Contrasting characteristics in people.
🧠 Difficult Grammar Structures with Translation
"What makes campus life so conducive to friendship is..."
→ Cấu trúc đảo ngữ để nhấn mạnh chủ ngữ hành động.
→ "Điều khiến cuộc sống đại học thuận lợi cho việc kết bạn là...""As long as there is mutual respect..."
→ Mệnh đề điều kiện loại 1 ngụ ý giả định trong hiện tại.
→ "Miễn là có sự tôn trọng lẫn nhau...""Unlike younger people, middle-aged adults often prioritize quality over quantity..."
→ Câu so sánh dùng cụm giới từ 'Unlike' để so sánh 2 nhóm.
→ "Khác với người trẻ, người trung niên thường ưu tiên chất lượng hơn số lượng..."
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